Is the war between working moms and non working moms, politically motivated ?

All I can do is speak for myself. I am a conservative Republican and I had every intention of working when I had kids because there are nice daycares and because I felt we needed the money...but my husband wouldn't have it so he's providing for us to an extent that I can be a SAHM. I am grateful and know it's a blessing, and I have nothing against woman who are SAHM's or who are working mom's...but I think every individual has their limits too....like Sarah is really driven and energetic and can handle work and family. Some women can't handle too much on their plates and kids and housework is enough! I don't think either side should judge the other...