Am i being to harsh with fallout 3?

i hate fallout 3 because of these reasons . it took me 20 minutes to find where my pistol is and how to equip it . i got out of the vault and spent 45 minutes trying to find out wat i had to do or wat my objective was and then some kid comes up to me and goes o help me i cant find my dad he got taken by wat me and my family call *** ants. i mean wat the hell u little **** i have things to do and your swearing at like AGE 9. After like an hour i find were i have to go and i start walking up the hill into that city that im supposed to investigate then some human things i dont know wat the *** they were but they start shooting me and i have a little shitty pistol while taking on like 3 guys i mean wat the *** . should i give it another go and if so wat can i do to make it better for me